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Nightmare of insomnia!

I'm 67 years old,always had insomnia,have to have a very dark room.
Even a beam of light will keep me up,I've tired everything except sleeping pills,which I won't do,I wake up all hours of the night.
Go to bed at 10,wake up at maybe 2 a.m,then 4a.m,then 6:30,can't sleep anymore cause I get a headache,I'm really tired of this I wish I can sleep like a normal person.

  1. I'm truly sorry to hear about your long-standing struggles with insomnia. Chronic insomnia can be very challenging, and it's understandable that you wish for better sleep. While I'm not a medical professional, I can offer some additional suggestions that you may find helpful in managing your insomnia:

    Consult a Sleep Specialist: Given the chronic nature of your insomnia, it's essential to consult a sleep specialist or a healthcare provider with expertise in sleep disorders. They can conduct a thorough evaluation to identify any underlying causes or contributing factors and recommend appropriate treatments.

    Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I): CBT-I is considered one of the most effective non-pharmacological treatments for insomnia. It focuses on changing behaviors and thought patterns that contribute to sleep problems. A trained therapist can work with you to develop strategies to improve your sleep.

    Light Management: Since you're sensitive to light, ensure that your sleep environment is as dark as possible. Consider blackout curtains or shades to block out external light sources, even small beams. You might also want to use an eye mask to further eliminate any light disturbance.

    Sleep Restriction: This technique involves limiting the time spent in bed to the actual amount of sleep you're getting. It can help consolidate your sleep and reduce nighttime awakenings. A sleep specialist can guide you on implementing sleep restriction safely.

    Address Sleep Apnea: Sleep apnea is a common sleep disorder that can lead to frequent awakenings during the night. It's more common in older adults. If you have symptoms like loud snoring and daytime fatigue, consult a healthcare provider for a sleep apnea evaluation.

    Mindfulness and Relaxation: Incorporate relaxation techniques and mindfulness practices into your daily routine. These can help reduce anxiety and promote better sleep. Deep breathing exercises and progressive muscle relaxation are good options.

    Medication Alternatives: If you're opposed to sleeping pills, discuss alternative medications or supplements with your healthcare provider. Some natural supplements, like melatonin or valerian root, may be options to explore, but it's important to consult a healthcare professional before using them.

    Sleep Diary: Keep a detailed sleep diary to track your sleep patterns, daily routines, and any triggers that may be affecting your sleep. This information can be valuable for a healthcare provider or sleep specialist in diagnosing and treating your insomnia.

    Lifestyle Changes: Review your daily habits and lifestyle choices. Avoid caffeine and alcohol in the evening, engage in regular physical activity (but not too close to bedtime), and maintain a consistent sleep schedule.

    Support: Seek support from friends and family, and consider joining a support group for individuals with insomnia. Sharing your experiences and receiving encouragement can be helpful.

    Remember that managing chronic insomnia may require patience and persistence. It's important to work closely with healthcare professionals who can tailor treatments to your specific needs and monitor your progress. Improving your sleep is possible, and seeking professional guidance is a critical step in the right direction.

    1. Hi . Thanks again for such awesome support and advice. Do you also suffer from insomnia? If so, are some of these tools and tips helping you to cope? Thinking of you. - Lori (Team Member)

  2. Thank-you! working on doing a home sleep study,their exspensive.I have a friend who's a natural path,she's telling me ideas like taking magneisum etc.

    1. You've had a long journey with insomnia, . Have you talked with your doctor about getting a referral to a sleep specialist? These days, sleeping pills are a last resort. Cognitive behavioral therapy is usually the first treatment recommended and it is often very successful. Here is an article about insomnia treatments that might interest you: https://insomnia.sleep-disorders.net/treatment. I hope this helps and that you finally get some relief. Gentle hugs. - Lori (Team Member)

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